Friday, April 23, 2010

a little wish

hello missfatty.

seriously... 23years old and I am still in disillusion that she is only 3 years old.

a companion to share all the good and sad news, to share the good and lousy tv shows, to gossip the good and bad sides of the celebrities, to debate about the good and bad moral values of people, to discuss the good and bad of ourselves, to console the down and low days of ourselves.

can you stop sneaking on stupid kisses and kicks that will really irritate the 'heaven' out of me!

anyhow, happy birthday and sorry, no money for your present.

what a boring day... ...

Friday, February 12, 2010

"Lucky I Found You"

Sweets and I were just talking about Honeymoon period last night...

And a pleasant surprise today.

After feeling good singing a full chinese birthday song to mummy dearest in the secluded stairways, I got the secretary running around searching for me. She told me to collect something from the reception...

It's so sweet. Not tearing sweet but... 'honeymoon-ingly sweet'. This will be a good event to mark the end of my stay in this company too.

Plus I heed your advice to being a responsible worker. I will be slogging till the last day of work.

Thanks for being a great companion and reprimand-er. Loves.

Monday, December 28, 2009

in a nutshell... i'm a nut

Can't believe how dumb I am.

All Taiwan photos from iphone are gone, all the interesting poses we shot for whole 10 min all gone, all the beautiful flowers at the hybrid garden all gone, all the nice shots of Tian Wang Gong all gone...

Because I keyed Ctrl + A + Del... short-cut keys! I hate you!!!

Thursday, December 03, 2009


I'm a terrible organiser and procrastinator too.

There I was hyping all about holidays with family and friends, and here I am easily disheartened and moodless to continue the planning. I felt bad towards some people. The TZ who I told I'll engage his agency for the Cameron trip next Jan and k-kindergarten friends who have looked forward to a trip together next year. Should I continue on with the planning? But so many have already turned me down. And I hate rejections. Maybe I should tie up some ends by promoting the interesting itinerary and foolproof planning. Or maybe I should just sleep and forget about the whole thing.

Nonetheless, it had been fulfilling thus far since ... two months ago? Gathering with external families through weddings, birthday celebrations to stand good reasons for spending on gatherings, miscellaneous gatherings here and there, crazy department dinner, and not forgetting EXERCISES at TG... Rolling car tyre. Gosh. I so believe I am going to embarrass myself by rolling on my own during the event at Taiwan. Later throw sgporean's face! OMG.

And a superb news recently. Like what Kie says, "it's more unbelievable than striking lottery"! Fingers crossed and LMCB, hope all's good...

Sunday, November 22, 2009


Missfatty and Mummy dearest were standing outside the house plucking out my white hair. It has always been a FUN chore to pluck white hair. My sis and I used to do that for my mum which we later would extort her for some money. One strand for 5 cents? Bet my sis used to charge 20 cents each. Anyhow, it was so disheartening when my sis found two strands right on the 'top'. This took place after a wedding lunch. Wondered how many people seen those white strands so contrasting to my black. Sobs. I always like looking at people's hair, especially those silky long ones. Mine ain't that silky but I still think not too bad. Imagine being spotted two white hair... Turn off.

Total findings: nearly 10 strands on two spots. TWO SPOTS!! What great signs to show I'm getting older much faster than my peers.

Happy birthday BF!

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Life, Me

Greed is my Achilles' heel. When one is greedy, he wants all of everything, and yet without any intention of effort or sacrifice. I'm the fallen victim.

I want to be socially and spiritually wealthy - good career, good family, good friends, good in serving others. But all this while, I thought I've done enough to deserve them. The truth really dawns in. I've done nothing at all. I haven't even geared in and I'm already sitting there offhandedly waiting for the car to move.

"Everyone has different personality in managing their roles and work, but there are still fundamentals to be managed the same way. Look at yourself how much have you done to make sure you are responsible for all your actions."

I've learnt something about myself today. I'll take note and improve. Thanks for the lesson tonight.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009







Saturday, September 05, 2009


Friday, September 04, 2009

I am with you

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?

The husband just said "I am with you Darling” The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would bemuch fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."

Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiving, selfishness, and fears... And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.


Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship. Never take some one for granted, Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." Remember this always

it was a beautiful story, until some crazy friends interpreted it in a different light...

"u want to pick stone(ssp's mistakes) then lose diamond(job)"
"next time u see got ssp's plan not done or ssp's email not reply (medicine bottle open)"
"the child is dead is like C torsional problem"

Sunday, August 09, 2009

44 years old

A-dollar Singapore hat :) One TooT and one CowBoyish