Tuesday, September 29, 2009

缘分

跟他在一起三年的女友突然对他提出分手,也不跟他说任何理由。他过后发现女友和另一位结了婚。他变得消沉、苦恼。伤心的他便到处埋怨。

一天,他遇见了一位师傅。他把伤心事都说了,老师便送了他一面镜子。

他在镜子上看到了一个故事。。。

有一个赤裸裸的女尸体倒在河边。第一个男士经过,便用手捏着鼻子,走掉了。第二个男士,看到了女尸便把自己的大衣脱下,盖在女尸的身上,然后走开了。第三个男士看到女尸,便把女尸抱起,然后在草上挖了一个洞,把女尸埋了。

老师过后对他说:你就是第二男士。你的衣服一盖,那个女孩就用了她今世三年的时间还给了你。她现在要嫁的人,就是第三个男士。那男士的怜悯心,女孩便用了她的一生去报答。

Saturday, September 05, 2009

说了又不听
听了又不懂
不懂又不问
问了又不做
做了又做错
错了又不认
认了又不改
改了又不服
不服又不说

Friday, September 04, 2009

I am with you

Boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS:
1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER:
The husband just said "I am with you Darling” The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would bemuch fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."

Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiving, selfishness, and fears... And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY:

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship. Never take some one for granted, Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." Remember this always

it was a beautiful story, until some crazy friends interpreted it in a different light...

"u want to pick stone(ssp's mistakes) then lose diamond(job)"
"next time u see got ssp's plan not done or ssp's email not reply (medicine bottle open)"
"the child is dead is like C torsional problem"